Thursday, November 11, 2010

T.O.P Week 2: VU Sistas

 Words of thankfulness. Be a part.
My second note for Thankful on Paper is actually a group of notes (emails) to my:
VU Sistas.

Things have been a *smidge* stressful around here as of late, and shockingly, I haven't been all that cheerful. [See: "Ashes" and "The Tearing of Robes"]

But I do feel loved. I have gotten so many emails, FB posts/messages, texts/calls, blog comments, etc. wishing us well and sending us their prayers/love...

The hub of these messages come from a group of women I met in college.

I went to a small, conservative,  Christian University. For those of you who know me well, you might be asking yourself, what the HELL was she doing there?!

(It's a long story, for another time...)

Needless to say, I felt very uncomfortable and out of my element. I didn't belong to a church, hadn't grown up in one, came from basically a "Cops" episode in terms of my childhood, and had a sailor mouth. (still kinda do.) I had the audacity to show...CLEAVAGE. (Get behind thee behind me, Satan!) I was judged and judged HARSHLY.

I kinda hated life. Until I started to meet women who accepted me as I was, and loved me not just in spite of it, but because of it.

I have unique relationships with each one, and while some of the friendships may have been superficial or sporadic to start, over the years, every relationship has deepened and become special to me, and even as life takes us in different directions, I know that they will be there for me, as I will for them.

Every one of these women have entered a place in my heart not as my friends, but as my sisters.

[They know who they are :)]

At different points in the last 9 (almost 10, now, WOAH.) years (It's been a rough decade, to say the least), each woman has touched a part of my life, and has been there to lift me up when I couldn't lift myself.

Now as I've moved into wife and motherhood, they have celebrated and shared with me. Cheered me on and still, step in to not just lift me up in times of turmoil, but also my family.

Whether we talk mostly via FB or email, phone chats, or we see one another regularly, whether we remain friends till we're old and gray or get swept away from each other in the changes of time: 

I am so Thankful for these smart, gorgeous, funny, compassionate, kind, creative, loving, crazy women. I always will be. I love you all, and I hope I have been (and will be) the type of "sister" each of you have been to me.

We don't have Traveling Pants, or anything, but you all are magic in my life.

I may not have Luck, but I have amazing friends....which is kinda lucky.


Alisa Marie said...

Love you girl! I was proud to be friends and also honored to share that little apartment that no longer exists with you back in the day!

Amber said...

following from T.O.P's - so nice to have outside 'family' that loves you no matter what!

hannah singer said...

what a blessing! thanks for sharing! xo

he calls me wifey said...

I got your email today and just now replied!

Thank you so much for being the gorgeous, beautiful, wonderful, amazing you that you are!! I am so proud to call you my friend and, like I said in the email, I admire you so much for your strength and courage and I am so thankful that we have grown close in the last few months and I hope we continue to do so :)

<3 you girl

Britt said...

Just so you know, I love you and accept you not in spite of, but BECAUSE of your cleavage.

Rochelle Buckley said...

What beautiful friends you have.
Thanks for sharing :-)